Here is what I live by.
What two people (or one person for that matter) decide
to do to quench their sexual thirsts is really none of
my business as long as it does not infringe on my
rights. 
I know for a fact that the one thing that ‘disgusts’
heterosexuals is the methods gay people use to show
and express their intimacy and to get sexual
satisfaction. The knowledge of these methods is
acquired from a very over-active imagination or, passed
on from those who may have been witness to the ‘gay
sexual act’ (how and where is a subject matter for
another day).
Maybe here we should pause and ask the question, are these same acts more ‘acceptable’ to the ‘normal’ society if they are expressed between a man and a
woman?

Its funny how two women can hold hands in public and eyebrows are not raised to question their sexuality, but alas when two men do so, there is a general uproar from the ‘normal’ ones.

There is a general murmur of disapproval when a man and woman chose to live together (whether in a relationship or not). But of course, there will be little or no
questions asked when two men or two women live together as ‘roommates’.

It is equally strange that it is okay for two women to share a bed, or two men to share a bed but not a man and a woman to share a bed, for example when you have
an occasion at home where the guests must stay the night, or a few days and leave in the morning. Do the ‘normal’ ones ever use their over-active imaginations to wonder what these guests (or roommates) are upto when left alone in the dead of night?

I find all of the above situations comical.

I feel that those who are advocating for ‘normality’ in society are hiding behind a cloud of self doubt (of their own sexuality) and archaic beliefs of self preservation. They are afraid of the unknown and are ultimately afraid of themselves.

Regarding ‘The Avante Garde African Woman’ (unfortunately, interpreted as a woman wanting to be a man) and the issue of the liberated men being sissies
(now interpreted as men wanting to be women) simply because; she has realized that she has an equal say just as the man, and the African man on the other hand
has accepted the African woman as an equal partner in life, well, I am not sure whether to laugh or cry but I am happy in the knowledge that somehow, we shall all
find a way to live together, acceptable norms or not.

This is a personal choice of course.